Who are you working with?

I AM YOU. First and foremost, if you are vibing with the energy here it’s because I have been there, where you are, where you don’t want to be, in that space of uncertainty and fear and you want to know how to move forward, move past whatever barrier is keeping you in that space.

I am a big proponent of the power of lived experience. I can show you my degrees and certifications, and the qualifications that make me a clinically trained, evidence-based practitioner committed to your psychological and relational well-being.

But, through my lived experiences, I can also share with you, empathize with you, and support you with compassion and insight as you navigate the challenges and struggles that facts and credentials alone can't address.

If you choose to join me on this transformation, I will be a trusted guide on your journey toward deeper connection, healing, and personal growth with yourself, your partner, and the world around you.

My Approach

Credentials

In the end, though, credentials and professional experience are important! You can book me easily through my consultation link or send me a message through my contact page if you have any questions!

Vanessa Icazbalceta-Soto

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor LPCC#15849

Sex Therapist and Coach

I would describe my approach as a smorgasbord of modalities. Not one approach will fit every one of your needs. At times, we may find that Cognitive Behavioral Therapy works well enough, and at times we may need to tap into Somatic Therapy or Solution-Focused Brief Therapy.

When working with couples with libido Differences, we may tap into some bibliotherapy or Sensate Focus to address discrepancies.

When working with Personality Disorder clients, we may tap into Dialectical Behavior Therapy. All in all, we will pull from various modalities to create a unique and tailored approach that is as unique as you are.

I want you to imagine your therapeutic journey as a road trip, and guess what?! You’re driving! That’s right. You’re the one in charge. But you aren’t alone. I will be there, guiding you and assisting you from the passenger seat. You have complete autonomy on this journey. You are the expert of your life. I’m along for a portion of it to serve as support and encouragement. We are in this together! Let’s have an amazing journey of self-discovery while we are at it!